Friday, January 9, 2009

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Being part of a group, for work or play, may not be very easy now, for you could feel like an outsider. You could think that others aren't very receptive to your ideas, yet you might have a role in their resistance. It's possible that you have not done as good a job as you thought when explaining your position. Instead of waiting until you are on the defensive, take time at the beginning to get your point across clearly.

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不太清楚你碰到的具体什么情况,不过我的经验是,你提意见别人不一定会认真听,除非你在小组里很有威信。比较有效的办法是你起头做,而且每次都带着一些进展去和别人聊,这样其他人会很自然地involve进来。